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They Need to Chill. Tips for Turning Seeds Into Trees

How exciting to think of a full-size tree locked up within each seed still clinging to the branches of sugar maples, hornbeams, oaks, sycamores and other trees at the end of summer. It was with such visions that I dropped an apple seed into some potting soil in an 8-inch clay flower pot one ...

Beware Scammers

Dear Readers: With a COVID vaccine approved, be careful, because, as with a lot of things, here come the scammers. Always check with your doctor and or pharmacist before reaching out to an online pharmacy or anyone calling, texting or emailing you stating they have a COVID vaccine. Never give out any personal information to these people. — Heloise TECH TALK TUESDAY — TWO FACTOR AUTHENTICATION Dear Readers: Two factor authentication, what is it? Think of it as an extra layer of protection when you’re online. When you log onto a website (a financial institution, your email ...

Parents Clash Over Who Should Discipline Their Children

DEAR ABBY: I am a single father of three wonderful kids. When my wife and I separated, we agreed to 50/50 custody and a property settlement. Everything went smoothly. A year later I requested, and was granted, full custody of my children. Their mom has visitation, but that’s it. Shortly after my separation, I met a woman and we became good friends. I waited about a year before introducing her to my children because I wanted to make sure I knew her first. Although we are not “officially” in a relationship, she has been more than willing to step in and help with the children. In ...

Son Helps Himself to Contents of Late Grandfather’s House

DEAR ABBY: My father passed away a few months ago. My brother lives out of state, so emptying the house has been up to me. Shortly after the funeral, my adult son (the only grandchild) arrived and loaded his car with all the toilet paper, paper towels, light bulbs, cleaning products, etc. He did it without asking, so I promptly had the locks changed. When I asked him about it, he said, “Grandpa doesn’t need the stuff anymore.” After months of packing (by myself), we are now down to the furniture, and my son wants everything. He feels he’s entitled to ...

Last Year Wasn’t All Bad

In this week’s Antique of the Week column, Maureen Zambito has an interesting article about collectible clocks and calendars. I don’t know about you, but I plan to burn all my 2020 calendars in the outdoor fire pit as we stand around and wish the year farewell. And what a year for all of us. It’s not easy to look back and recall all the good things when so much ink was spent on the pandemic that disrupted our lives in so many ways. However, I looked over my calendar, especially the past 10 months, and realized there were positive things that happened and good times shared on ...

Couch Potato Seeks Assistance for All-Over Arthritis Pain

DEAR DR. ROACH: I am a 72-year-old male disabled veteran. I started work out of high school in a factory where I did hard but not brutal work. Then went to Vietnam, where I injured my knee and had to be operated on. Next, I worked for an airline as a baggage handler then became a licensed aircraft mechanic, both of which were hard physical labor. I have had one knee and one hip replaced, which was brutal and only slightly successful painwise. I now find myself with arthritis in most of my joints. My feet, knees, hips and back keep me from being active at all. I take 90 mg of narcotics ...