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Nightly Dinner With Sister is Too Much Togetherness

DEAR ABBY: I am 25 and live with my parents. My 28-year-old sister lives in a condo about 10 minutes away. She just graduated from school and moved back here, which means she doesn’t have many friends in the city. For the last five months, she has been coming over for dinner like clockwork every day and every weekend. I’m still finding ways to be social during quarantine, but my sister doesn’t seem able to find other means to meet people. Seeing this much of her is, well, too much. She demands attention, practically forces us to entertain her and gets upset when the dinner my ...

Time Well Spent

Today’s Sound On is about making the best of it. Dear Heloise: Many of us are complaining about being stuck at home due to the coronavirus. Maybe it’s time we all took stock of what we can do while at home. I’ve been talking about painting our living room for the past five years. Now I’ve had the time to do it. A fresh coat of paint makes the room look clean and new. For the first time, I took up oil painting and discovered how much I enjoy it. I’ve also had the time to try out some new recipes, and now we’re eating healthier meals made from scratch. COVID-19 is ...

Recipes For Happiness

I don’t know about you, but I’m not crazy about meal planning these days. Working from home often means more meals being prepared each day and some real thought having to be put into eating. Before COVID, my husband and I routinely ate a larger lunch and just had a quick meal of leftovers at suppertime. I am happy sometimes just munching on something over the kitchen sink with no dishes involved. Or a bowl of Cheerios will suffice if I’m really hungry. The state of eating during these stay-at-home days has forced me to face my small case of hoarding. No, not food or toilet ...

Reader’s Dermatitis Trigger More Likely Stress Than Sanitizer

DEAR DR. ROACH: Like everyone, I have been using a lot of hand sanitizer and a lot of disinfecting wipes throughout the day. Do these sanitizing products get absorbed through the skin and build up in our bodies? I ask because I have come down with a difficult case of seborrheic dermatitis on my face, though I don’t use any of these products on my face. My facial skin has always been hypersensitive, so I was thinking, if this is my weak spot, maybe the ill effects of the sanitizers and disinfecting wipes would show up there. — A.H. ANSWER: Hand sanitizers use alcohol to kill ...

Unhappy Wife Wants Out of Marriage to a Good Man

DEAR ABBY: I’m 54 and afraid to tell my spouse I want a divorce even though I’m in an unhappy marriage. I told him years ago that I no longer loved him and didn’t want to be married anymore. His reply, “I have enough love for both of us.” This year will be our 15th together. I am spouse No. 3. I think he thinks that if there isn’t another person I’m in love with that we can continue like this. I feel it’s just time for me, and I’m tired of always being somebody’s something. I have thought of moving out, but money is an issue, and I have nowhere to go. I hate ...

VIRUS DIARY: Always Learning From ‘Happy Little Accidents’

PHOENIX (AP) — I'm not alone in confessing that I have always enjoyed those Bob Ross instructional painting programs that ran on PBS for many years. Perhaps it was his soothing voice as a tree appeared like magic on a lake with the flick of his wrist. Maybe it was his Mr. Rogers-like ...