MARY LOU BORDER
In a decade that was defined by a global economic and political crisis, which led to widespread poverty and famine, an innocent child was born on the 18th day of December, 1930. Little did this vulnerable human being know, she would live through one of the most historic times of our great nation. The people of this period had to develop, create, and initiate key survival lessons to solidify their existence. They grew their own food. They hunted, fished, and foraged. They bartered and they learned to be as resourceful as humanly possible. They depended on themselves and one another. The spirit of generosity, family, and community bonds was a true inspiration that was held to a high standard. Their characteristics, qualities, and the impeccable ability to survive and adapt, clearly define what we know as the human spirit. In a poverty-stricken world of negativity, hate, and oppression, these people face, conquered, and accepted their way of life with open arms, led by devotion and love. I am humbled and honored to be given the privilege of being the one chosen to put into words, the life of one of the heroes who stared into the eyes of adversity, never faltered, and refused to surrender, my grandmother, Mary Lou Border.
Mary Lou was a lady of class and elegance. She was a timeless beauty that was a source of strength for her entire family. She was a woman of wisdom and gave it to you straight. She loved you for your accomplishments and beyond anyone’s faults. She was genuine, selfless, compassionate, and devoted. Her love for everyone that knew her was unconditional, gentle, and always held true. She was confident, determined, and unwavering. She was nurturing and experienced. Gracious and empathetic. Kind-hearted and courageous. We were fortunate to have this woman’s mind, body, and spirit for 93 years. She made the world a better place just by being in it. Now I can truly say, we can all say, although it seems nearly impossible to trump the beauty and purity of it. Heaven is now a better place because you are in it.
Mary Lou was preceded in death by her husband, love of her life, Charles E. Border, four sisters and three brothers.
She is survived by her devoted children Charles D. (Paula) Border, Richard D. (Ann) Border, Tamella J. (John) Border Harler, several grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and nieces and nephews.
Mary Lou loved swimming, baking for her family, exercising, and reading.
Family and friends will be received on Wednesday, July 3, 2024, from 10:00 am-1:00 pm at Altmeyer Funeral Homes Lutes & Kirby-Vance Chapel, 118 Grant Avenue, with a Funeral Service at 1:00 pm. Procession to and interment at Halcyon Hills Memorial Gardens will directly follow.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Liza’s Place or the Marshall County Animal Shelter by visiting https://www.tmcfunding.com/.
Memories and condolences may be shared with Mary Lou’s family at https://altmeyerfuneral homes.com/.