Authentic, Satisfying Relationships Are Developed Over Time
Q: I was recently shocked when a coworker said he’s heard that having an affair can actually spice up your marriage. I’m sure that’s wrong, but I’m at a loss as to what to say in response. What’s your take? Jim: My take: ALL of the best social research shows that having an affair will certainly NOT “spice up” the relationship in any positive long-term way. Infidelity has been described as a huge bomb detonating within a marriage. At Focus on the Family, we hear from hundreds of people every month who confirm that imagery. The effects on everyone involved are ...